If there’s one thing I’ve learned over the past 27 years, it is to expect the unexpected.  I don’t think many would disagree with the fact that life changes, sometimes rather quickly.

The element of surprise is both useful and challenging. It is useful because it brings us happiness when good things happen. On the other hand, it is challenging because we never know what lies ahead.

However, it is something that is never going to change; thus, I have learned to accept it. Knowing what you want to do is all well and good, but it is always smart to have a backup plan. The reason I say this is because in my experience, I have rarely seen Plan A work out. I like to have a plan because it helps to reduce stress. Although that plan may not always play out, I like knowing that I am least somewhat prepared. However, I also realize that sometimes life throws us curveballs there simply are no plans for.

We must enjoy the good times when they come. One thing is certain, life would be very dull without that little factor known as surprise. In fact, it is the very element that often turns into some of the most memorable moments that one can have.